~*Forum Counseling - To Keep the Peace*~

by Guest Fri Feb 19, 2010 3:52 pm

Okay, as we all know it's not easy to get along with everyone you meet in life and here on the forum, with us all so close together in one place, tempers will flare and words will be said and...we don't anyone to walk away from here with hurt feelings.

This is a place where everyone should be able to come and relax and have fun with friends and enjoy themselves. We don't want to have strife and anger and upsetting things preventing us from having a good time. Although we can't change the way of the world and the troubling things that go on in it, we can help to smooth things over here so we can all get along and have good memories about this place and about the Winx. Nothing spoils the memory of something you love than having the good times marred by bad times.

SO!

With that said, here's what we're going to try.

When you're on this forum and you have an issue with someone, let's talk about it here and try to work things out. When friends have disputes, when you're picked on by a random forum member, when you read something by someone that you just don't like, instead of getting angry and saying things you may not mean, come here so we can talk it out, peacefully.

Other forum members can join in, too, but please, no fighting, flaming, yelling, shouting or generally making things worse. You can agree with a person, for example:

Flora is angry with Bloom because Bloom said something mean to her.

Stella can say, "yeah Bloom, that was pretty mean what you said to Flora" but that's it. Stella shouldn't go off on Bloom and say, "YEAH! What's your problem, Bloom!? You're so mean to Flora! You should be nice to her! Why are you such a mean person?!" ...because that would hurt Bloom's feelings and then two people would have hurt feelings and that helps no one.

We're not here to blame anyone or to start any fights...or make any fights worse. We're here to help each to get along and enjoy this our Winx Club. It may happen that an issue can't be resolved here and if that happens, the moderators will take care of it. But, for now, let's give this a shot and see if we can make this an even warmer and better and more awesome site than it is right now!